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writes:A posted another about my mum finding out about me losing my virgintiy well now she has left on holiday with my sister and she told me am not allowed him to stay over which i can understand but all a really want to do is just fall asleep beside him and wake up next to him but i respect her rules but she still wont let me do this even just for one night with him. How can a get her too see that all a want and if a ask her honestly and tell her what am planning to do a want to see she can trust me now and want to be treated more fairly cause with everything going on in my family right now am soo close to tell her am moving out. Please help
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reader, ::it was an honest mistake::  +, writes (21 July 2008):
 i've been trying to this for about a year,
and everytime the answer is no.
your just gunna have to deal with it.
and i guess your mom finding out that you lost your virginity would lose a bit of her trust.
and once you do move out,
you can hold him all you want.
:)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 July 2008):
Unfortunately you just have to put up with the fact you can't be with him.
I know being in the same bed is lovely but sometimes it just can't happen.
I think, given your past history with your mum and this boy, it would be a good idea just to say "OK I'll follow your rules. I want you to know you can trust me."
She's only trying to do what's best for you, even if it's highly annoying when she does. When you do move out, it should be because you have found a place and she is happy to see you go... NOT because you have had a row about some boy.
Good Luck!! xx
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