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writes: right...heres me im a young teenager, and everything has been going wrong, i even moved schools! i started off in Tywyn, gwynedd now i'm in Dol, gwynedd! my mates hate me, i'm stressed with school work, this 17 year old lad keeps bugging me, i've tried to tell him i dont like him in that way but hes a good mate, but he stalks me! my sister stress's me out big time my neice steals all my stuff, i hate my mum and her boyfriend!! he smokes weed in the house and NOONE is allowed to smoke in the house! i'm 13 and my neice is 5 and we have to breath in these drugz! and whenever i try and talk to my mum, she acts like she dont give a damn and neglects me!!!! i'm thinking about going to live with my nan but how do i ask my nan? and how do i tell my mum i'm moving out?? please help i'm 13 and don't eat or sleep, i need help...FAST!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): wow, sounds like a harsh life.
firstly, look at it all with a sence of calm. you may be stressed but the more you stress the worse it all seems. talk it through with someone close who you know you can trust, maybe your nan. dont bring up silly things about wanting to move etc just tell her how you feel.
im guessing your welsh? maybe even phone child line if you dont think you can trust your nan, they dont tell the authorities but they do help by just listening.
your niece is just 5, shes going to be a pain its something you cant solve. this guy is 17, he shouldnt be after a relationship with a 13yo, just keep him at arms length. and if your mom doesnt listen to you then maybe you have to make yourself feel more understood, she might even be scared by her bf.. but shes your mom and nothing brakes that bond so dont go get angry at her over nothing, be calm, know what it is you want to tell her and be polite when you tell her
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