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female
age
36-40,
*OLABUG
writes:I've been married to my husband for 4 years, we dated on and off prior for less than a year. We got married when we found out I was pregnant with our daughter, He was leaving for AIT training in the Army. I honestly would not have married him if I hadn't gotten pregnant. I was to leave for boot camp a week later, but I wanted to give us a try even though I wasn't in love with him. I have a guy that actually loves and appreciates me and the kids, he's actually his cousin and I'm in love with him. We haven't done anything just talked, he's willing to put me and kiddos first and go against his family, because there will be drama. He is wonderful and who I actually see myself with. My husband has started to act better and change but I'm in confusion right now. On one hand, I can act happy and be okay avoiding drama. On the other i can be extremely happy and have a bunch of drama, plus divorce and custody. Can someone help me please?
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reader, Bronna  +, writes (18 November 2008):
Firstly...think about it ...do you want to spend the rest of your life mireable.. just to avoid drama? oh please... you will be making everyone around you misreable with your unhappyness.. I beleive that your children are going to suffer if they have a mother that is not happy... I suggest that you take a leap of faith and do all that you can to ensure your happyness... if that means ending your marraige and going against alot of people who love you and will be against this.. so be it.. if they love you they will understand.. you cannot make someone happy if you yourself are not... do what is right for you.. follow your heart.. you don't want to look back in years to come and say... if only.....
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