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writes: My husband has been looking at nude pictures of women posing on motorcycles. When I confronted him, he denied it first, then said it was my fault because I work evenings. When I do get home, he's already asleep. What should I do about his browsing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): This guy is a loser. I'm not sure which is worse, looking at nude women, which is mysogynistic, patriarchal and oppressive, or looking at motorcycles, which is just plain tacky. I'm afraid the best case scenario is that he's a sick porn addict. Worst case scenario: he's shopping for a motorcycle. Next he'll start wearing leather and get a tattoo. Be thankful he's asleep when you get home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): Men like porn, there is nothing wrong with looking at porn. Try looking at it with him, it can be a big turn on. Get sexy with him more often,dress up ,spice things up. Stop seeing it as a problem and enjoy your love making.My man of 17years watchs porn and I watch it with him. Men get turned on by what they see, so give him a surprise. GOOD LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2005): get over it. nudes on bikes? BFD, its not like he is looking a group anal sex or something. cut the poor bastard soem slack.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (11 November 2005):
 This is perfectly natural for men of all ages, married and single. They just like naked women - that's a fact of life! It's not unusual for a man who gets regular sex to look at porn either.
But the fact that he said it's because you're not really there should tell you he's upset about something. This isn't the only reason he's looking at this, I'm sure he'd do it anyway with half the chance, even if you were there all the time, but he's trying to tell you something. He's missing you and maybe you should take some time to spend with him away from work.
The best piece of advice I can give you is 'keep your man happy . . . or someone else will'. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2005): How do we know? Are you making love when you are both rested, in the morning? Do you take showers together and play and fool around? Is oral sex part of your foreplay? Do you make love at night when you do get home,, waking him up if you have to? Why not? Watch the porn with him, Talk to him about the movies, and what he likes, what you like, etc. Why make this an " enemy" when it can be a friend. You can learn some things from porn, even if it is only what about it turns your guy on. You can learn to get aroused watching it yourself- many women do. ( They just don't talk about it for the same reasons you would be afraid to ask your best friends about the subject.)
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