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writes:I've had problems since b4 I met my husband, my nanna died when I was 13 and I never grieved properly and it still affects me today. I've had 2 children with him and bad postnatal depression with both and I don't think it went away. He left me a few weeks ago because I didnt give him the love and affection he wanted. I didn't mean to hurt him, I love him with all my heart. I just had lack of confidence, and I didn't know how to show him things. Well after years of trying it was just b4 he left, I got my life sorted out and I'm right again, but he says its to late, I've hurt him to much. He's been seeing another girl since we split and its killing me, cause I just want him home again. Is there anything I can say or do to show him he is my world and I will never hurt him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): He sweety
I know how you feel I am going through the same thing right now.He is 35 and now seeing a 20yr old. My heart goes out to u my heart is breaking everyday. Hav you go him back yet???? If so how??? If not I dont have the answer as im still trying to find mine. You can email me at [email address blocked]
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): Why do you want him back? He left and now has a new gf, would you of wanted him back if he hadnt met someone else? Sorry to sound so harsh and you can mail me if you want, but i went through something similar years ago. You have got yourself back on track. Forget about him and start again. You went through a very very bad time, he said you didnt give him the love he wanted. How understanding was he when you were going through these bad times? What love did he give you? Think about it, do you deserve to go through anymore with this guy. Boot him out of your life, let the kids see him on mutual grounds, not in your home, and get yourself a back bone and move on. Be positive and enjoy and love yourself and in time you will meet someone who you so rightly deserve. Forget about winning him back from his gf, tell him to buggar off.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 You still have a bond with him through your children.When he comes to see them , treat him well and do talk to him to show your concern and care for him.
You need to be better than that new g/f and he will come back for you . Man are familiar creatures.
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