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My husband is texting another women, but says it's for the thrill, he does not want her, what to do?

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Question - (15 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

Found out my husband has been texting and phoning a another woman and sending pic's !

He says doesnt know why he does this!

He doesn't want her,he just enjoys the thrill the chase

what should I do?

Any ideas

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009):

"A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009):

Hun, this is going to sound horrible but that is what my "friend" tells his wife. Theres more to it... You leave because as long as you keep putting up with it, he'll keep doing it...." what this woman is telling you is that she is having an affair with this married man and perhaps your hb is doing the same as well.

and the anon female has no qualms about being the mistress to this married man.

if he is just feeling the thrill and cannot explain his then its time you either put a stop to his cheating ( because this is what he is doing) or you accept it or you also take on an extra thrill in your life. and make him know that you are also texting and phoning someone else. but the 3rd option is not a good one.

so plse get to the bottom of his cheating ways if you keep quiet he will continue with his affair and then what? you are forewarned. he is up to no good. be firm in your decision. tell him to stop or you will stop it for him. confront this woman and tell her firmly to butt out of your marriage or else just like the anon female's posting , your hb's woman friend will not also care that he is married and will indulge with your hb. if she is not doing so already.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009):

I agree it'll lead to something else or he'll like the "thrill" too much and go looking for more.

Anyway he obviously says he loves you but if he did then he wouldn't be degrading you like that.

You're worth more then the disrespect he is giving you you deserve more don't let him go round thinking he can text just any women he has you make sure he knows he's lucky! Don't be dis-respected by this man it is wrong what he's doing and he knows it.

Just know that you are worth much more.x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009):

Hun, this is going to sound horrible but that is what my "friend" tells his wife. Theres more to it... You leave because as long as you keep putting up with it, he'll keep doing it....

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