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writes:My husband has told me I should have sex with other men.I've told him no way, that would be cheating and it would damage our relationship.I'm 24 and he's 26.I asked him why he wants me to do this, and he said he's lost his sex drive and doesn't want sex anymore, but he still insists he loves me and he still does nice things for me. I loved him, but now he's suggesting this, I'm not sure if I love him any more now. His personality is still nice and we do get on. He said if I see a man I like I should have sex and even a relationship with him!I can't understand why he wants me to do this. He said if I do have sex with another man, he won't watch, he'll let me get on with it.He says I can remain married to him but sleep with as many other men as I like with him not worrying about it.I've told him no, but he's insisting I should have sex with other men.Help me please!! I'm worried!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): If I were you I would question him a little more about his loss of sex drive. There are men who get their kicks by imagining their wives sleeping with other men. I hope it's not for your sake, but it sounds a little like something I have heard before. Ask questions!
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Lots of people lose experience loss of sexual desire at some point in their lives and there are many different reasons for this, how has your husband been in his self lately has he been going through a stressful stage lately?, could he be depressed?.
Ill health can cause loss of sex drive, also there are certain drugs that can cause it and alcohol.
Do any of these things strike a chord with you?
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (14 July 2007):
 I think you still do love him, you just don't "get" where this has come from. Tell him you don't want any other men. Can you cope with your husband and a low sex drive?
Your guy is feeling inadequet as a man due to his sex drive dropping and probably thinks you won't love him anymore and find someone else anyway. It's painful but explain to him that you don't want anyone but him.
I think you need to talk to him some more about this as its a bit worrying that he keeps insisting you do it :)
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reader, justice_123 +, writes (14 July 2007):
watch your husbands behavior cause his sex drive is not gone its to early he may be cheating or worse he could be just need some attention cause he might be trying to let you know he doesnt want this relationship so watch his behavior please watch him!
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