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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been together now for 10 months and ever since the begining he always went on about getting engaged to me before my birthday well my birthday has gone now and i sort of mintioned it to him saying were u all talk he said can u blame me wen we are always arguing and i was gob smacked as i thought that the reason why he hadnt proposed to me was that he wanted to do it wen i was least expecting it. and this even made me think well actually we having unprotected sex too, so if he was having doubts about marriage then why is he ok to be having sex unprotected it dont make sense.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (5 September 2007):
Is he right about the arguing? There are getting to be lots of unmarried women raising families without men. I think it is due to growing differences in the expectations of men and women. You need to understand his expectations as well as your own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Knowing him for 10 months is not long enough to know that is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Stop having sex unprotected. Men will have unprotected sex, and it doesn't mean that they want a child with you or want to marry you. It simply means you're being irresponsible. Le tit cool off & then talk to him about what you both expect & want. If he doesn't see marriage in your future, move on.
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reader, stawberry01 +, writes (5 September 2007):
 Hi
You havnt be together for that long try not to push things give it some time if you have taken the spet in not having unportected sex then he it conmitied to you and may ask you soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Why are you wanting to get married? Enjoy life and have fun and settle down later on. If he hasn't proposed and you expected him too, then i wouldnt be in a hurry. Let things cool off a bit and show him that you are not really too bothered, that way he will either, try harder and move off all together. You are not desperate and stop coming across as if you are. You are a beautiful person so stop letting him call the tunes. if you are not happy with the situation and you cannot act more relaxed towards the situation then move on, simple. Life is just too short to feel this way.
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