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writes:Okay, this one's complicatedI went out with this girl and it didn't work and she dumped me, now I'm going out with her best friend. My ex has gone weird and told my girlfriend she doesn't want to have anything to do with her. I'm worried that this could cause us to break up, my girlfriend is worried about her friendship with her best friend and I'm stuck in the middle.Help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): Of all the women in the world, why did you choose her best friend? Did you want to hurt her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): This doesn't sound too complicated to me.Perhaps your ex is simply annoyed that you've found someone else, or it could be that she's worried that she doesn't compare too favourably with her friend - in which case make sure she knows she doesn't, a beautiful way of getting your own back.Your ex is the one with the problem - it was she who dumped you, remember?If your current girlfriend chooses her friend over you then you're obviously not that important to her and you'd be well rid of her.It all sounds a bit immature to me.Phil
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reader, Everlasting Love  +, writes (16 August 2007):
ouch... not the dilemma of bestfriends, above all else show her that you love her but in the same time win her bestfriend's[your ex] heart. because if the friend approve this relationship will last but if it doesn't... she may be discouraged to continue on with you so because they are such close friends and the fact that you she's your ex. best of luck
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