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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have been with my girlfriend in a relation ship for 3months, i know its not much but before we use to be with each other as dating and we know each other for 4 years.i love her alot and i really want her to be happy and so on. right now she have exams and next month she will be finished from them all. she had decided to go to spain with her 3girl friends, i was shocked to tell you the truth because i didnt expect that she goes out with such a decision, i had panicked when she told me :/i trust this girl, but the thing is that i see it that she is going to be in danger place and that something bad might happen to her.:( i mean 2 of her friends are single and the other one is in a relationship and they are going to beaches and parties in spain.to make it more worse, they had booked an apartment not a hotel so less security will be there :( im really worried about her and i also see that shes is really, willing to do it. i really feel bad! i know i cant say dont go!, i know i need to trust her, but the thing is if it was me i wouldnt go because of her due that i will miss her as hell and wouldn't have fun..i did confront her and told her how i feel, in a really gentle way, and she told me that she understood my feeling but i need to accept it as she wants to relax when she finish her exams..she told me to go with them but i have other and really important issues to do so i really couldnt go and she knew i couldnt.i dont want to loose her or something, sometimes i admit i build up stories what might happen to her in my mind...that might get drunk, or flirting, but in the end i just say if something might happen, she will loose me. BUT THE THING IS I DONt WANT TO LOOSE HER NEITHER!i really dont know what to do and im being frustrated seing her booking stuff and having fun orginizing LIKE ME DOESNT EXISTS! what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks man i really appreciate what u told me, it really make sense
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