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writes:Hey, this is the situation. My girlfriend had plans with her friends last night and so she saw them and we planned to see each other tommorow evening. While she was with her friend I planned to see my friend during the day time before I saw her. But she text me after we arranged it and asked if I wanted to go town in the day, as I had plans with my friend I couldn't so I said I'd see her that evening as planned.I saw her in town today with her friend, and she was looking away from me, I approached her and said hi to be friendly, she responded with "I'm in a rush" and "Gel your hair tonight when you come mine". I took that as an insult, that she was rude to me and tried to avoid me and insult my appearance, I was a little hurt. So I rung her just now when I got in and said I'm not coming round tonight unless I get an apology for what she said, she didn't apologies and said she didn't care if I came round. Then a while after I got a harsh text of her saying I'm to sensative and to grow up, I'm even more annoyed. I have been advised to stick to my guns and wait for an apology. What should I do, I'm kinda upset?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe patched things up, I overeacted. I thought she was being harsh when she wasn't. Cheers guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): I'm just going to say that I agree completely with what Emily said, so you have 2 votes for those opinions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's the way she acted, it was humiliating for me to hear her say that in front of my friends and give me the cold shoulder. I deserve an apology. And of course the relationships working, I love her, it's just what she said hurt me. Also as for the party, I doubt it, I was just going hers in the evening like I always do.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 September 2008):
Have you considered that she might have been planning a surprise party and wanted you to be done up?
It was an insestive comment though - I think I'd be pissed off with a guy who told me to "wear a skirt when you come round."
However, demanding appologies and stopping talking to her is a bit of an over reaction. You could just have said that you found it hurtful and left it to her to apologise rather than doing it agressively.
If your relationship is not working on even this basic level then why carry it on? This doesn't sound like something that is going to work long term if you can't even cope with basic niceties.
Good Luck!! xx
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