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writes:My girlfriend is big on public displays of affection but I feel uncomfortable with it. It's much more than just holding hands and a quick peck, she's licking the back of my ear and running her hands over my body.She's so crestfallen whenever I bring it up. What to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): Some people are big on that. But honestly when I see couples like that, I don't like it. So I guess I'm like you! All you can do, is tell her to ease up
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reader, rachel3288  +, writes (25 September 2008):
 She's not gonna like you confronting her about this subject but honestly she needs to hear that you are uncomfortable about it bc if it were the other way around she would expect u to listen to her. Girls like it when you show some sort of PDA, this shows other girls that you're taken and to "back off" lol. I personally don't like the major PDA, I like holding hands and would rather be somewhat discrete, but not all girls are like that. I think you should say, Look... I like you and I don't want to hurt ur feelings but I'm uncomfortable when u do this...
It's probably gonna hurt a little for her to hear it but she needs to respect that. But definately show her some sort of attention in public so she feels that loved. Good Luck, I hope this helps! ;)
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