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My GF wants me to please her, but when it comes to me, if its anything to do with my penis...she just acts like its gross!!

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Question - (13 June 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys, first off im not a pushy guy when it comes to sexual things so im not into "forcing"anything. My girlfriend loves for me to go down on her, however she never wants to return the favor...she'll tell me she will, but when the time comes, she'll make up some reason not to or she'll just "forget" (like I said, im not really pushy, as i do care a lot for her) also, on top of things, she used to go down on her ex all the time! (I know this because i knew the guy) when i ask her about this she just tells me she dosent really know why... also this isnt just with the bjs, its with anything to do with my penis...she just almost acts ike its gross, this hurts my fellings also, esoecially since shes always wanting me to do things to her...any advice on this?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011):

stop going down on her dude. Is she worried about you cumming in her mouth. This is undertandable. Talk to her and come up with a sign for when your ready so you can get it away from her before you cum

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011):

You do the same to her.

Act like its gross and when shell freak out tell her that she does the same and it hurts you.

Take it slow and give her time but at the same time don't give her bjs so shell realize how you feel.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011):

You do the same to her.

Act like its gross and when shell freak out tell her that she does the same and it hurts you.

Take it slow and give her time but at the same time don't give her bjs so shell realize how you feel.

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A female reader, llifton United States +, writes (13 June 2011):

llifton agony auntdon't take this the wrong way, but how is it down there? do you trim? take regular baths and extra precautions to be clean down there? the only thing i can think of if she's done it to other guys but not you is something to do with hygiene. and she may not be comfortable expressing it to you. not saying this is it, just an idea.

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