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writes: My girlfriend's mother's boyfriend is a real asshole, and he controls both of them. He doesn't let her see me. Even her mother acts like she doesn't want her around me, she avoids her seeing me. But i've never done anything to deserve this, even my girlfriend is confused and hates it. Since the summer, i've hardly gotten to see my girlfriend, maybe once per two weeks, and she's hardly able to talk on the phone with me (or anyone really). We've been growing apart really fast, and i'm afraid that we might break up because of this. I don't want to lose her, it scares me so much. I love her a lot. But.. being apart ALL the time isn't helping, it's making things very worse. It's like she's in a prison. I wish so much that i could see her. What can i do. Should i talk to her mother? And try to convince her mother? I don't know. I'm so lost. I can't stand the thought of ever breaking up. We were very close, but her mother/mother's boyfriend's avoidance of me, has been making us grow apart fast, please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2006): First of all, you're probably the first male i've ever met that doesn't want to break up with his girlfriend when the going gets tough. I've been in a situation like yours. Chances are the girl isn't happy about not seeing you either. Still, try to keep in touch, through email. If not, then try to meet--secretly. Yes, it may be a challenge, but it's possible (let her tell her mom she's meeting her "girl friends"). Well, if she's not allowed out the house--maybe you should alert the authorities about your girlfriend's mother's boyfriend. Keep in though, don't let her go for something like this. If you really love her, then you'll survive this.
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