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writes:hey, so i've found the woman of my dreams. We're both crazy in love w/ each other and going on a year now together. I have this one issue that bugs me soooo much and it seems the more feelings I develop for her, the more this issue bugs me. She works at a hospital in the urology dpt. She assist in all types of surgery and often has to hold the patients penis for the dr. or set up cathaters, or just clean it up, whatever they do, but I can't stand that she works w/ penises all day. I don't like the idea of her seeing or touching another guy there, even if it is in a medical setting it still bugs me and I don't know why ? she says that penises do nothing for her, it's just a job, if that's the case, then I just feel like there's nothing I can do to impress her here, I'll just leave my clothes on now. I don't know it just eats me up. I once went to the dr for a check up and there was a young student nurse about my age, who had to inspect my parts. It felt very awkward, b/c I'm a good looking guy w/ a nice package and I'm wondering what her boy friend would think if he could see her w/ her hands on my johnson. I also wondered, how ? could she not be at all a little amused or intrigued ? how does not a hint of "oh my ?" come in to her mind ? hmmmm ? what do I do about this ? I wish i could just get over it, but i don't go to work and see naked women all day so it doesn't seem even, maybe if I were a gynocologist than I'd understand, but then again, how many women would want to date a gynocologist ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Arianz  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 Dear,
Don't think in this way, Cause it will kill ur mind everyday...
so think its her job and she have to make it done. thats all.
she is honest with u. she touch other penis for work or for tretment NO any other intension.
So i think positively and forget negetive ways.
best of luck
take care
arianz
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male
reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 Be a MAN...
It's her JOB and that is what she is doing.. She is Holding a penis out of Compulsion not Choice... !! She is anyway Holding a Penis, not stroaking it..
Buddy, Id she would wanna see another Penis, she would do it without being at the job.. Understnd..? And what's it with "oh my" stuff..? Don't you give that expression when you see a girlz breast...? That's OK and does not hurt your relationship anyway..
If you're trying to say that you are Insecure that your GF would fall in love with someone's penis, then Brother, Girl are not like men.. We can fall for a Girl's boobs, but the girls wants MORE than just Sex.. ;)
G'day
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): HiStop been Ridiculous..I have worked in the nhs and have had to handle many willy's and bottoms male and female and believe me the only thought on any nurses mind is...the dignity of the PATIENT ..who does not want to show their private parts in the first place. Bugs you! only because you are THINKING with a sexual nature..vcd.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 I don't agree that she dislikes her job, but I don't think it's sexually motivated either. Most people become nurses because they want to help people.
Her job is not to hold a man's parts. That's part of her job. Her job is to provide care for patients.
She probably loves her job because she is helping provide medical care to sick people, which is meaningful and fulfilling for her. If you love her, you should be supportive. Doing her job is a far cry from cheating.
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reader, Passthrough +, writes (25 December 2008):
 Honestly, dont you think you'd not want to be a boob inspector if you had to inspect ALL the boobs which came into the hospital?
I'm sure she dislikes her job more than she enjoys it :D
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