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writes: i am 14 and was texting my boy mate the other day. it was his birthday a few days ago and i didnt know so i didnt get him a present. he said dont worry about it. i said to him "i'll have to go now cos i'm going swimming wiv mates". then he said "r u in the changing rooms naked now then? cos as my birthday present u could send me a picture of u naked! hehe."then i txt bk saying no way!what does this mean? does this mean he fancies me or what, i'm confused?????
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reader, bonym  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 Well he may fancy you but I have loads of male friends who I doubt very much fancy me but are always making suggestive comments to me, probably cos they are simply being men thats all! Some men as caraduddy said just love to see naked girls,look at Nuts magazine and page 3 in tabloid newspapers, they maynot necessarily fancy all these women, but their naked flesh to them is pretty site. If he is your friend, just ask him, I am sure he will be honest with you. xXx
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reader, caraduddy +, writes (16 August 2006):
 Lads love naked girls maybe he wants a picture of you because he likes girls bodies?..why dont you ask him if he fancies you or get someone else to ask for you? Then you will know.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (16 August 2006):
 It means he's a young guy with a raging libido.
He'd be very pleased, I'm sure, if you were to oblige him (but don't -- more on that in a moment), but his indicating that he'd like to see you naked doesn't necessarily mean that he fancies you.
I'll bet he'd be pleased to see *any* girl naked: you, your older sister, the lady across the street, some girl who was at the back of the bus, the girl at the sandwich shop... anyone!
Guys might ask this now and then, just for a stir. When you're a bit older, and maybe have an established relationship, you might get asked this later on, too. Please take my word for it, and *don't* do it. It sounds like a cute and harmless thing, I know, and every guy in the world ~swears~ he won't show it to a soul, but the truth is, guys can't help themselves. The temptation to show it around is incredible, and in fifteen minutes flat, your nude/topless/stripping/saucy photo will be flashed (literally!) around the globe, in thousands of In Boxes, posted on websites, and quite possibly on 'Hot Or Not' and/or other ratings sites. Yeesh!
Once you give something like that to someone, they can make a trillion copies, and you can never be sure it's really gone. It could turn up 20 years from now!
So, the short answer is: he was probably just teasing, to get a reaction out of you. If you want to tease back, that's fine. You can also roll your eyes and pretend he didn't write it, because his comment doesn't necessarily "mean" anything. It was just a stir.
If he really fancies you, he'll need to be a little less jokey, and a bit more direct, 'cause if you're not sure what he's getting at, you're always safer to assume it means nothing.
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