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writes:My ex and I haven't talked for a while and mostly we are very good at keeping in touch and even when we broke up we would hang out and do things together. I guess you can say that we have always enjoyed each other's company. I started talking to one of his friends and I was telling her my problems....I still had feelings for him and what not. She decided to take matters into her own hands so....she messaged him saying exactly this...."why are you being so stupid and not see the beautiful thing that god has layed b4 you. I know you're scared...she is too but I know you guys will be good. She's crazy for you and yet here you are scared about everything that could go wrong? She cares about you more than you know." He came to me asking if this was true and I didn't know what to tell him. What should I say? I mean, I still have feelings for him... He makes me feel happy. He made all the bad things go away and he took care of me. I fell in love with the way he would look at me...and the way he would tell me that I was beautiful...the less and less time I was with him, the more I fell in love. Now I'm head over heels for him and I don't know what to do. and I don't know if he feels the same. Should I take a flying leap? I'm just scared to lose his friendship. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell...it tùrned really bad. He got angry because in the message I sent him I told him the reasons why I wanted to move on. I told him that I was happy at some point but bad things started happening. I wasn't going to go through everything again...he got angry && now....its just really bad. We can't speak to eachother....&& we can't even look at eachother's face....that's how bad things got. Honestly, I don't want to deal with immatùrity. && I noticed that as close as I was to this...I don't want a ùnstable relationship....screw it...I don't care anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell...it tùrned really bad. He got angry because in the message I sent him I told him the reasons why I wanted to move on. I told him that I was happy at some point but bad things started happening. I wasn't going to go through everything again...he got angry && now....its just really bad. We can't speak to eachother....&& we can't even look at eachother's face....that's how bad things got. Honestly, I don't want to deal with immatùrity. && I noticed that as close as I was to this...I don't want a ùnstable relationship....screw it...I don't care anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2007): i say yes take the chance and go for it or you will be left with the what ifs dont let fear get in the way as if it works out it mayb the best thing ever and if not atleast you tried, he knows how you feel and you know how he feels so you can give yourself time to move on without the what ifs. good luck with what ever you decide to do
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