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My fiancee is planning to meet up with someone else, but I found out by going through her phone! How do I bring this up with her?

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Question - (19 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2007)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I suspect my fiance is spending time with a someone else. I checked her phone and noticed some text message to and from. They have been communicating and planning to meet. My fiance in the past said he is just a friend. How do I go about this? I checked her phone without permission. How do I bring this up and confront the situation?

Thanks

Duke

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A male reader, Royofthe Rovers United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2007):

Royofthe Rovers agony auntYou need to think about these text messages. Are they enough to suggest that she is seeing someone else?

Could this be an innocent meeting with an old friend?

Tread carefully, unless the messages are explicit and blatently obvious in what they mean. Remember this is the woman you plan to marry, you have to have a certain amount of trust and getting the wrong end of the stick could damage that trust in a heartbeat.

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