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writes: My ex has found a new girlfriend, who happens to be my friend. I'm really upset. How do I get over it? Please help!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, ekawaii +, writes (6 November 2005):
 The best way to mend a broken heart??? For me, its to rediscover your sense of self-worth and self-respect. The thing is, for a year and 2 months, you have given your all to him, and since you've always been accoustomed to the feeling of someone always there, now that the break-up's done, you don't know who you are before you even met him. So try figuring out once more who you are. Go out with your family (coz maybe you've been neglecting your family over your bf for the past year), or spend time with your friends (go shopping, whatever to pamper yourself)... The big idea here is to spoil yourself rotten so you can easily find just how strong you really are, even if you're single now. okay?Huh
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reader, gemma +, writes (20 June 2005):
I too have felt that heart wrenching feeling of your friend and ex b'friend getting together. It's ultimate betrayal. Still no-one is ever worth breaking down over. There is ALWAYS better out there. If your friend was a true friend she wouldn't be with your ex, so let her have your sloppy seconds and accept she's no longer anything to do with you. You concentrate on your life and go out more and meet new people, eventually you will stop feeling so devastated and be totally besoted by someone else. You only live once, so make it good. Avoid the stress of life, which these two people are creating and look to the future. There's light at the end of the tunnel and if you stay positive, you may even find this scenario will make you that little bit tougher and stronger. Everything happens for a reason and in time you'll see this has it's reason too. So positive thinking, lots of fun - going out meeting people having a laugh. You'll be fine infact with the right attitude you'll be amazing and show everyone how bright you can shine!!!!!!!!
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