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writes:My live in boyfriend of seven years left several months ago and relocated to his home town on the other side of the country. It was a definite breakup in that I did not even get a call asking if I was o.k. He wasted no time and promptly met someone else. I was in his city on business in the fall and we spent the weekend together. All the time we were there his cellphone kept ringing with messages from the other girl. He had informed me that they had broken up prior to my visit. Things kind of went from bad to worse after that. I guess they got back together, the relationship deepend and they are now living together. I had made my peace with this and was starting to move on. A couple of weeks ago I got a late night phone call from the other girl saying my ex is still in love with me. She was drunk and yet it was still unerving. I still have a soft soft for this man and this phone call set me back a bit.Any hope for reconcilation with this man? It was a long relationship and there was no real chance for closure for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe response from Irish 49 was excellent. She stressed that although it is never easy to let go of someone we care about, sometimes there is no choice if you are to maintain dignity and grow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2006): You know what to do, hun. Keep moving on with your life and stay away from this. Don't say anything or do anything. Let them work out their own personal relationship issues. If your ex bf wants to be back in your life, he knows where you are. It's possible he does love you, still. It's possible, he is enduring 'emotional baggage' that many people live with when they move too quickly into new relationships. Especially after a long term relationship. Or..perhaps they had an argument and he might have said "he loved you still" to lash out at her, to cause her distress. You just do not know for sure. This is their business and best to ignore the fact that this girl called you, in a drunken state. Move forward. Let them work it out. Take care
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