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writes:Well I was going out with this girl for 3yrs but last year well she broke up with me the reason was that one of her cousins told her that I was talking to someone else we live like 20miles between us anyways but yea he told her and yeah it was true it was like a 5th ex gf that I had but we were just talking nothing bad but I never told my gf because it I thought I wasn't a big deal. but anyways that was one reason and the other was that supposobly stop trying to love her that I was for sure that I was going to be with her but the worst part that once we broke up like she didn't give a chance to get back with her instead she went out less than a month with another guy. Then I told her at least tell me who it is that broke us apart she didn't want to tell me. So then I called one of my friends which is her cousin and there like brothers and I ask him if he knew who is the guy going out with her and he said yes but he couldn't tell me over the phone that it had to be in person so I said ok. Later that night we meet up and we just started talking about why I cheated on her and I'm like well I didn't bc it wasn't like I was kissing her we were just talking. That's when he told me that he was the one that told her that I was talking to that girl and that he was trying to get with my ex gf but she told him that she was talking to me. So he told my gf. Then I told him that I would do anything for my gf I got her a cell phone and paid her bill for three straight years bc her parents wouldn't buy her one then our anniversery,her bday, whatever holiday it was bought her whatever she wanted sometimes gave her gas money, sometimes paid her school when she needed, basically give ger money whenever she needed. She was the girl 4 me. But not to make this story long but then he told me so u don't have a idea who her new bf is? I said no or else I wouldn't of called u. Then he stayed serious and said its me. In my mind I was like what? how aren't u guys cousins? But he read my mind and said that they are second cousins and that I guess it passes that's how he told me. I was very shocked bc they were all the time together and dancing and going out everywhere and it was fine for me bc they were cousins and he was my friend but I guess I was wrong.but what u guys think about this? I know different family think different but first and second cousins are still family that's how my family thought me.
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reader, mario4hustle +, writes (22 February 2009):
she never really respected you cause you kept spending money on her. girls like the ruff guys.
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