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writes:Disaster.My ex will hack this and read this as usual but still want advice.He went mental because I got a new boyfriend so he hacked my email and sent a naked picture of me to my dad.What do I do? He said he deleted the pictures but he's just a freak like that. How do I explain it to my dad? I'm 16. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): What did your dad say? Please update us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): i agree with q.nd i think cw was the big billy goat gruff (sorry c-dub), and im on the creek bank with randb rolling around laughing at anyone who has the... umm ignorance to call our resident computer expert an idiot. Saying that it isnt happening because its against the law is like saying tiger cant cheat because he made vows to elin... People dont smoke pot because its illegal...and the people down the road from me are operating a meth lab. they have small kids, the lady at the store alerted the police about the daily purchase of cleaning supplies and we can smell it if the wind is right. But its a crime so it cant be happening. duh. People break laws every day. Yep, scoot over randb, im joining you..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): ROFLMAO
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): I'm with Code Warrior I don't feel sorry for you at all, you have behaved like an idiot sexting and sending nude pictures via email to your boyfriend. Sixteen year olds don't have any business behaving like a porn actress.
Yeah, if your father has any brains he will be ashamed of you. And crying is not going to help. You have learned a hard lesson, be mad at your boyfriend, er ex sex buddy, but be mad at yourself more for being a little skanky.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (12 December 2009):
Well i feel sorry for you that your boyfriend has turned into a complete asshole. Althogh i can imagine myself doing something similar if my partner left me for someone else :-/ . But anyway theres not alot you can do enless you can get to your dads computer and delete it before he reads it ask to borrow his email address for something. If you cant do this you will just have to tell them your boyfriend pressured you into letting him take the pictures and you never knew he would send them to anyone. Just say your really sorry and he has only done it because you left him . Say sorry and cry a little that might help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): He knows your passwords, you have to change those as soon as possible. You have to change your security question too, you have to change your security question to an alpha numeric password and not an actual answer. All your passwrds should contain numbers symbols and uppercase letters or it's very easy for someone to hack you, e.g. rt68£.Fgte£"23, this type of password for both your password and security question answer are impossible to hack.
As regards the problem of your dad being sent naked pictures, by doing so, your ex sent your dad child pornography and no I'm not joking! You're underage and your ex having naked pictures of you he is in fact in possession of child pornography.
Firstly you need to tell your dad this because he needs to get legal advice or face prosecution himself for possession of child pornography. This is not a joke and yes it is that serious. Your father now has child pornography on his computer and any computer that he accessed his emails through and only destroying the hard drive can remove that.
All of this overrides any mistake you made by sending the pics in the first place so don't worry about that too much, you made a mistake, but what your ex did is highly illegal and could lead to serious issues for your father if not deal with right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): Go to the police. That's a serious offence. As for your dad - he's seen you naked before I expect, but just tell it exactly how it is. He may call the police before you have a chance to get to the phone if he's any kind of supportive father. I know I would.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): First of all he is a lowlife, second of all I don't think that you can say much to your dad, just wait for him to have a chat with you and he'll tell you not to do it and just sit through it listen and apologize xx
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (12 December 2009):
Go to your mum and tell her that your female friend took a picture of you when you two were playing around, then pretended to send it to your dad to scare you as a joke. Tell her she pressed send by mistake. Do it now before your dad sees it. It will be terrible for him to see you naked in a sexual pose. Your mum will then figure out how to tell your dad then your dad will be able to delete it before he sees it. I would tell mum now if I were you. Or if you decide to tell dad yourself use the same story then delete it together and face the shit later.
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