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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Okay me and this guy was really close friends for like 3 years. We always flirted with each other and hung out all the time, but were never dating. We did however start having sex and continued to until I found someone new that I actually started dating. I wanted to be friend with the other guy and it seemed like it was working. But recently he's been trying to get me to have sex with him again and he sends me dirty text messages and pictures of himself saying Do You want it? lol I'm just wondering if there's anyway we can still be friend without the benefits anymore?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): Yeah friend with benefits. In other words he will be your friend if you have sex with him. You are reaping what you sowed. Just say you want nothing more to do with him because of his behaviour then break all contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008): I'm sure there is - just tell him that the sexual side of your friendship is now ended because you're with someone else who you are more serious with. You also tell him to stop sending you messages of that nature or he won't even be a friend any more. If he doesn't take the hint after that, simply blank him and have nothing further to do with him or he'll damage your current relationship.
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