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writes:Please help me. I just dont know what to do.Im still in love with my ex. We were only together for 5 months and we split up 6 months ago, because he suddenly decided that I wasn't his type and not the girl for him. I was very hurt but I could never move on and get over him. He was really good mates with this girl when I was with him and although he couldn't see it, she was always using him to her advantage. I've recently discovered however, that he is now in love with her and sleeping with her, but she already has a boyfriend and is using me ex to make him jealous because he won't make a full commitment to her. My ex doesn't understand this and every time I try to tell him he accuses me of stirring trouble. No matter how many times she uses and lies to my ex he always takes her back. I get so frustrated because she doesn't care about him, whereas I really love him and would give him anything in the world. I understand that she's really hurt him a couple of times but he still goes back to her. I know she doesn't love my ex and is playing him but he just doesn't see it. I'm so frustrated that I cry all the time and get angry with myself for still loving him. This boy has put me through so much pain this past year that I should be hating him but I just can't. He can't stand the sight of me anymore and ignores me whenever he sees me. I feel like I'm going mad. Should I wait around for him to realise what this girl's doing to him and maybe come back to me, or should I just get over him? And how do I do that? I really have tried but he won't get out of my head. This is tearing me apart.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 December 2005):
 You need to get a grip, honey. The guy is history and you need to move forward. Go out and meet people and try to have some fun. Eventually you'll find that you are thinking less and less about him. There is someone out there for you so start looking.
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