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My embarrassing problem...

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Question - (1 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, *y Girl1966 writes:

Why do I "fart" when me and my husband are having sex? This is embarrassing? Is there anything I can do for this not to happen?

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A female reader, Blue Sahara  United States +, writes (2 July 2010):

Blue Sahara  agony auntI can't tell if you mean actual farting or queefing.

Either way it's probably your position. If it's farting, sometimes you get in a position where his penis is rubbing on your colon kind of. And it kind of stimulates everything there.

But I'm guessing you mean you are making a fart sound from your vagina and it's called queefing. It's just his penis putting air in your vagina from moving in and out. It happens more in positions like doggy style.

If it really bothers you, avoid positions where your vagina feels more open (like doggy style). Otherwise, don't worry about it. It happens to everyone. One of the joys of sex no one ever tells you about.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010):

Assuming it is not air trapped in the posterior fornix (the pocket below the cervix where a long penis is accommodated) it is caused by sexual contractions of not only the vagina but the stomach muscles that compress the whole region. Not a reason for embarrassment. Laughing is fun during sex!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010):

Well try new positions. Try to go to the toilet before you start having sex. Put some music on or the TV so that you can relax more and not here any noises.

NightFairy

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (1 July 2010):

chigirl agony auntYou said "fart" with "". So I assume you do not mean a real fart, but air coming from your vagina?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginal_flatulence

Quite common. Embarrassing yes, but common.

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