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writes: dear cupidi have posted a question before about having a busted up lip, its not really a busted up lip its just that one part of my upper lip is fater then the other one, and i woould like to know if it is normal or not as when i take pictures it shows it and it makes me loook bad, plzzz help me as i am scared to go to the doctors just incase he laughsthank you Reply to this Question
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reader, Mr S  +, writes (4 September 2006):
 Hello from Mr S
I understand that you are a little worried about your Lip. Well the first thing to do is go to your family doctor and tell him what you are felling, and the fact that this is making you miserable and upset, the doctor will not laugh about it and he will take it very seriously,
The doctor will discuss your options with you in order to help you overcome the problem.
Can I be as bold as to offer a little extra advice? Any boy or man that loves you won’t even notice your lip for more than a second. Within any relationship good looks lasts only a short time, after a few years good looks start to fade. However; the person that loves you, will always find you dutiful. Don’t let a small problem rule your life a man will be along one day and he will love you for you and your lip will make no difference to your relationship. Remember that love should last a lifetime. That means when you’re 106 years old and with more wrinkles than a barcode has lines the man that loves you will still find you a turn on. And your lip will not matter.
All the best
Be true to yourself
Mr S
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2006): Everybody has something that they do not like about themselves. Photographs at certain angles always highlight bad points. If I have 30 photos taken I am lucky if I am happy with one! My problem is that I have hamster cheeks. My partner loves them.
Think about how other people respond to you and whether any comments have made you think that way or whether you are judging yourself too harshly. Think about things you like.
I know a man who is paralysed from the waist down. I know a woman who has had a breast removed. All of these things are hard to live with, However, your face is the part that you present to the world and people judge you by your eyes and expressions as a whole. Not by part of your mouth. Barbara Streisand has a big nose but has made it her trademark. Does this give you any ideas?
You could see a good cosmetic clinician and ask about having a lip enhancement on one side, but try to live with it for a while first. You may find someone who loves that particular feature in you and it would be much better to be proud of your uniqueness and individuality than conform. I bet you look great.
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