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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: My dad told my mom that I didn't like her very much, because she doesn't treat me that nice. This was suppose to be secret between me and my dad. Now I feel embarassed. My mom is on vacation right now. However when she comes back home I don't know how she is going to react to me. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, LauraE +, writes (9 July 2007):
I agree also. This isn’t the same thing as a bitchy girlfriend passing on your secrets to another girl. Your mum needs to know how you feel. Ideally you would have told her of course, but your dad felt that he had to step in and give your mum a chance to get things straight. This feels awkward to you, but your mum loves you, she will want to put things right. Wait and see.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (9 July 2007):
Maybe your dad told your mum this so she will have a chance to try and repair your relationship and make things better between you.
He has done this because he loves you.
Just wait and see what your mum is like with you when she gets back from holiday, what your dad said to her she has probably had time to reflect on whilst away, leave it in her hands now.
Take care.xx.
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