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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a crush on this guy who i met in college, ive liked him since i started. But the problem was he had a girlfriend. So I decided to move on and found somebody. Even tho the relationship isnt good, i still have feelings for my crush and recently he told me he was single. I am so broken and don't know what to do. My crush was great with me before, but until i started dating somebody else he's been a bit ignorant, and doesnt seems to think that now i have someone i don't need his company e.g catching the bus home together.The bad points are me and my crush both have my boyfriend in the way, and my crushs mate likes me or just a bit now. What should I do?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (22 February 2007):
 Let me ask you this... If your crush was still with someone, would you be happy with your current boyfriend or just with him because you couldn't have the guy you really wanted. If it's the former I advise you to stick with your boyfriend. There will always be the fantasy guys who rock up in our world trying to tempt us away from the more stable guys who have the higher probability of making us happy. The thing with your crush is you've never been in a relationship with him, you don't know his bad points.
However, if you've just been pretending with your boyfriend all this time I strongly advise you to finish it so your boyfriend has the chance of finding someone who can really love him.
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