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My cheatin' man has eyes for my man eatin' friend!

Tagged as: Cheating, Dating, Friends, Teenage, Three is a crowd, Troubled relationships, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (12 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi i am having some relationship issues here is my problem He did it again he wants to talk to her again but i fear her might fall for her again like last time and if he does i will be heart broken and i love him to death i fell in love with this boy but idk if he feels the same he been cheating on me before and now he wants me to trust him to talk to my man stealing friend!!!!!! thats f-ed up really it is and last night what i lost control over was what he said and it was "And since you want me to be with her so badly and you want me to fall in love with her fine. And she didnt block me we were talking the whole time" that really was fucked up i broke down into tears threw my phone against the wall and did other stuff =/ thats how much i love this boy and want to be with him and yes he cheated on me sevrel times in the past but he says he just wanted to have fun and im faithful i really am and now he always talks about my man stealing ex-friend and i he wants me to trust him but idk if i can anymore should i stay or leave and let everything we had go?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009):

you are 13-15. get a grip on life. you need to be realistic about this cheater. he will not change. so leave him and start over. cut the drama and re prioritise your life.

there is an old saying" you deserve what you tolerate" change this unhealthy cycle.

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (12 December 2009):

Griffo agony auntObviously youve had a bad past so far with him, he's cheated on you before and you've basically given him permission to do it gain by sticking around. Your loyalty is great but he's abusing it.

Are you truly happy? If not then its time to get happy. move on! your only a young little spring chicken your going to meet lots of new love interests in the future.

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