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writes:I caught My boyfriends brothers girlfriend seducing my boyfriend I confronted him we got into a whole fight over it. He denied it months passed before running into each other and now my boyfriend seems to be the one who seems like he is going an extra mile to make sure they have eye contact. I don't know wat to do about the situation
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reader, YouWish +, writes (12 July 2013):
 How exactly was she seducing him?? Was she touching him inappropriately? Was she downright seducing him?
If it was obvious and went well beyond "eye contact", and she propositioned him or touched him inappropriately, then what is her boyfriend (your boyfriend's brother) doing about it?
That's the whole thing, isn't it? If she didn't do something blatant where telling her boyfriend would cause him to break up instantly, there is the possibility that your mind is playing tricks on you. Jealousy, especially nursed and indulged upon, will cause your mind to play tricks on you, causing you to see evil in innocence, and flirting in polite conversation. Make sure that isn't the case, and if you are hesitant about telling her boyfriend about her seduction of your boyfriend because it might not be so cut and dry, then there isn't much you can do besides leave your own boyfriend if you can't take your own jealousy.
If in fact she did blatantly seduce him, your issue still isn't with her. It's with your boyfriend. If he loves you, he'll blow her off or be politely icy to her. It's not so easy with her being his brother's girlfriend as it would be a stranger. Also, if she's blatantly coming onto him, why isn't he looking out for his brother and telling him what she did? Trust me, his playing with his brother's girlfriend is the one girl a guy would think twice about messing with, even if he was single. That's his brother. Some people's girls are beyond off-limits.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (12 July 2013):
 I'd have a sitdown with everyone at this point...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2013): First of all, how much of this is just jealousy?
You may be blowing this out of proportion and just being over-sensitive.
Concerning yourself over eye-contact is ridiculous. You're acting like a spoiled bratty little girl. Do you really think his brother is going to let him near his girlfriend?
Brothers look out for each other better than that. They aren't going to let this girl come between them.
She would be messing around in a dangerous spot, cheating between brothers.
I think everyone is screwing around with your head.
You're out of your mind with jealousy.
Get a grip, girlfriend.
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