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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend what me to be more dominant in the bedroom and I am a little inexperienced in this area as my boyfriend normally takes the lead. I would really appreciate advice on what to say and doing (the dirtier the better) Thanks in advance :) Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2015): Communication is key. You should ask him what he likes. Ask him to be specific on how he would like you to be dominant.
Maybe he wants you to initiate stuff. Be the one who is "on top."
Just keep communicating with each other and experimenting. That's how you learn.
If he wants a blowjob, do it and let him guide if you need guidance. If you go on top, find what's comfortable, when you move your hips, gauge his reaction, see what he likes.
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