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My boyfriend usually comes quickly when we don't have sex for a week, but this time it took him forever!

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Question - (5 June 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ust_Me_16 writes:

Its been about a week since me and my boyfriend has had sex usually he comes fast when we wait about a week but tonight it took forever. How come? does the male body work like that sometimes fast sometimes slow?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011):

Hi. Yeah, sometimes my bf comes really quickly, other times he takes ages. I think it's really normal, I mean, men are not machines, right? Can't you identify with being more horny at other times than others? Stress and tiredness can affect things too. Also, if my bf is masturbating alot he sometimes takes longer to come.

Whatver, it really is nothing to worry about. Hope this helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011):

Maybe he was trying to do you a favor.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011):

Very complicated to answer this question. If a lad is not in control then it is easier to lay back and concentrate on not coming until your partner is satisfied.

Going to fast can make a lad come faster.

So can the arousal level. When you first meet a girl and your attracted to her. Your close to coming before the penis is touched.

Its strange, mood also affects this.

Maybe he has realised he comes to soon and has done something about it. maybe he masturbated before hand. maybe he went a researched methods.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011):

He jerked off before you had sex or you used thicker condoms or he wasn't turned on as much as he usually is

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