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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone,My boyfriend of 7 months and I cannot agree about what is acceptable behaviour when socialising with friends. I have no problem with my boyfriend meeting with his friends for a drink at the local but feel that going out every couple of weeks to a night-club (lad's night out)is worrying. When he has a few drinks he suddenly thinks he is 'Brad Pitt' and chats up every available woman in sight. He assures me that he would never make a move on any of them and doesn't understand why he does this. I am not a jealous person, but am very settled and hate going to clubs without my boyfriend. I like to meet with my friends during the week for a meal or the cinema and keep my weekends free for him. I feel so uncomfortable about his behaviour and no amount of talking will change his view. He says I must learn to trust him. I love him very much but I now feel I need to end it, as we both seem to want different things. Do most men think the same way? I am wondering will I ever find someone who feels the same way about relationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): I know exactly what you mean, my ex also liked going out and socialising on a regular basis, a lot of the time with his mate and without me. I like to go out but am more of a home person. We had different ideas on how a relationship should be. Also, there were trust issues which did not make it ay better. I think if u feel so strongly about it, u may have to consider ending it with him. He will only change his behaviour if he wants to, u cannot make someone be how u want them to be. good luck
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reader, flower girl +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Of course you will find someone with the same attitude as you when it comes to relationships, not every man thinks he's god's gift and disrespects his girlfriend going round chating other people up.
I would personally get rid and find someone that will respect you.
Take care.x.
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