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writes:im incredibly insecure. i have absolutley no idea why. what i do know is that it is starting to affect my relationship with my boyfriend. how do i stop feeling so worthless and improve my view of myself when i dont know whats causing it? my boyfriend always tells me and beautiful and that he loves me and everything else us girls like to hear, but i just cant accept that its true, i think i think he's either disalutional or just lying. i dont know why?!? how do get out of this rut?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): I feel the same way, just because of the actions my boyfriend takes. Like some of the things he says about other girls and the things he does...I mean, I guess I know he loves me and does think I'm pretty, but I always feel like he's lying when he tells me that I'm the most beautiful girl in the world...there's just no way that's true when he looks at other girls, you know?Work on your insecurities, and if it's because of your boyfriend's actions, talk to him...my boyfriend and I have talked, but we haven't really gotten anywhere...maybe it'll be different for you. :] Good luck
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reader, ladybug  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 he's not the problem hunny, its your self esteem, everyone were created uniquely, and each one of us were given a special characteristics, all youve got to do is to discover it, appreciate it, and be proud of it! insecurities will lead you nowhere, you are always something which others are not.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Maybe he does sincerely mean it love, it could help to talk to someone professional they can help you to overcome this?It seems like you dont trust guys and you don't believe a word they say? Has something happened in the past that could make you feel this now? TALK.xxxGood luck.
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reader, blaz£ +, writes (22 July 2007):
 Chances are if he is telling you he loves you and your beautiful he means it hun.Look at the way he is acting, if you cant find anything to suggest in any way that he is cheating on you, why doubt him?The only thing is have more confidence in yourself babe.Don't look at other girls and say how beautiful they are because your the most important person in your life and the most special in your boyfriends. So how you feel is the most important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): HI HUNNY,
Are you a beautiful person on the inside, do you care about others and worry alot are you kindhearted and lovely within...? You are depressed and havent a clue why, nasty isnt it. Your b/friend loves you if he says you are beautiful then you must be why would he be with you and lie to you...
You maybe need to see a counsellor has anything happened in your life in the past to make you feel this way now?
you should get a book of self help improving your self esteem, relaxation and music are good and cosy nights in with the candles and incense and just the two of you, build up that esteem babes get that spark back. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND DONT LET EVEN YOU TELL YOU OTHERWISE....
If you need a chit chat mess me ok YOU TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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