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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I am 22 years old. I have 3 siblings and I am the only daughter in the family. I'm in a big dilemma now. I really love my boyfriend so much.. However, my parents don't approve of this boy. they consider him as not being of the same socio economically. N yeah, my father works as a director general, n his father just a driver. here n there people bring discredit to my boyfriend's family. I just don't care his family background, now i'm taking a degree in business, but poor him,my bf, he have to work to find his own pocket money to continue his study. i really just don't care what his parents work as or what type of house he lives in. all i know i really love him. the bad thing is my mom removes all of my boyfriend's picture on my desk. My mom says He's not suitable for me. after all he's not handsome, that is what my mother said to me. We ( me and my bf) have been together 2 years.. it's really hard for me to break up this relationships. Now my dad, have been brainwashed by my family. its a really tough call but I dont get anything wonderful in life without taking risks.all the greatest people who achieved their successes had to sacrifice vast amount to get what they wanted, in this case I must to if thats what I want. Ultimately if your doing the right thing by God it cannot be wrong. Am i commited a sin? in ten commandments, it did mention ' honor your father n your mother.. but My inner voice says i must continue with this relationships. A lot of people jealous about our relationships. they tried to separate the two of us( me and my boyfriend) in any way. The worst part is, my parents ask me to find any guy as long as not my bf.My boyfriend really wants to prove that he can succeed in life. what can i do??? I'm in the big dilemma. do i have to ignore and rebel against my parents??? and choose the 1 i love..if i choose my boyfriend, am i a rebellious child?????
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