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writes:Well im dating this guy i met through my best friend he is her cousin. he lives 8 hours away from me but we both were content on making it work. he has made me pretty much fall for him by saying the sweetest things. then out of no where he completely stops talking to me he used to text me EVERY day and ALL day. now its been a full two days and nothing. i mean he is in college and just had a new little niece born and i have talked to him about him being short with me before and he said i didnt have anything to worry about. but i feel like this is ending he hasnt tried to talk to me and i just met a new guy who is intrested what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou soooooo much. I ended up talking to him. the reason i had a problem with this in the first place was the not knowing what was going on and i have HUGE trust issues. i wasnt trusting that he didnt want to hurt me. But i talked to him and made him promise me that if anything every happened he would tell me. Now he hasnt talked to me in a few days but i dont feel like i did. i feel alot better! oh and this new guy doesnt even come close to comparing with him i just didnt want to feel stupid so if he was done then i would have someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): This seems to be a common problem in long-distance relationships. It takes off at full speed, like a sort of whirlwind romance and then suddenly it dies down and you're left wondering how it all went wrong.This happened to me back in January. Confused was an understatement, I didn't understand at all. We're still involved with each other because we're in love and neither of us are prepared to throw that away. My behaviour hasn't exactly helped our communication as I'm often too stubborn to contact him and I become withdrawn. Unfortunately this has led to regular misunderstandings but it's just something me and him are currently working on. The point I'm trying to get across to you is that you should only continue dating this guy if you can see a future with him, otherwise it is simply not worth it. Best of luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): if u really like the guy talk to him tell u how u feel but by the sound of it ur not really into him otherwise u wouldnt be questioning it or just date the guy see how it goes from there
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