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writes:Hi, I am 20 years old and I have been with my boyfriend just over a year, before we started properly going out we used to see each other he was very affectionate and fun, now I'm constantly worrying crying and being over protective. The reason for this is, is his past with girls is very erm... Busy. He used to tell me who he slept with and that. And it bothers me thinkin about it and recently I told him to delete facebook as I found out he was lookin at lasses on ther and he deleted me and I didn't like it. The other day I looked on his internet history and saw he had been lookin at lasses on ther wen he said he hadn't. We went on holiday and he stared at every girl ther. He once told me I needed a boob job and takes the mick out of my teeth coz ther a little wonky and it really upsets me. I can't get over his past or how he was and I dnt feel he is happy with me, were always argueing about it and he tells me I need counsellin coz I'm not rite in the head. And thinks I'm makin a arguement wen I'm just tryin to talk to him about it. This is my first ever proper relationship but his 2nd. I'm too nervous that he'l cheat coz he stares at good lookin lasses and looks them up, why would he do that if he's happy with how I am? Do I need help? Or am I not ready for a proper relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2011): why are you letting yourself be abused like this? he is not taking you seriously..save your self-worth, and leave this relationship asap..he is not worth your worry and tears..
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reader, N91 +, writes (3 September 2011):
 You should dump this guy and move along, if he loves you why would he be putting you down and making you insecure about yourself. He should be making you feel like the most beautiful girl in the world!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 ha ha heart great anwser
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 September 2011):
ha ha heart great anwser
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 September 2011):
ha ha heart great anwser
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2011): Gently and supportively tell him that he might want - or indeed need - to consider a penile enlargement procedure, and see how he feels then.
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reader, Blod +, writes (3 September 2011):
 Your boyfriend doesn't seem like a very nice person! I don't think it's you with the problem, but him. You're in a relationship so he shouldn't be eyeing up other girls and making you feel second best. Any decent guy would make their girlfriend feel special and loved, he seems to be doing the opposite! No wonder you're questioning yourself.
To me, it sounds like he's the one that's not ready for a relationship. If you don't trust him and he seems more interested in other girls, then it's clearly not working. Maybe you should consider moving on from him.
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