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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend never has time for me should I break up with him ?? We were dating about 3 weeks before and things were great he was seeing me a lot then I got upset with him over him not adding me as a friend on facebook so I dumped him. I got really depressed about it well not just that but just life in general not going the way I planned and suddenly he begs me back and I took him back. Ok so here is the problem since I took him back 2 weeks ago I have not seen him ! I understand he works and has friends and a life and stuff but the past 2 weekends he has gone to parties at people's homes from work and I have not been invited and he plays golf everyday after work or see's a buddy. So I am confused ?? Don't we need to spend some time together to see if this is going to work or not ? I asked him if he wanted to be friends and he says no he wants me as a girlfriend. I also asked when I could see him and he said Friday for a couple of hours and got upset when I said I actually had plans that day for a group therapy meeting NOT a party like him ??? So I just told him If I wanted to see him again I would call him back. Did I do the right thing or jump the gun ??? help I am confused shouldn't he be making time for me at least some ????? thanks for reading
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 July 2013):
 Yes early in a relationship folks normally spend A LOT of time together.
this early in a relationship and not spending time together is a bad sign
you dated 3 weeks and broke up because he would not add you to facebook (a red flag for some folks to be honest depending on how much time they are on facebook)
then 2 weeks ago you got back together at his begging and yet he has not made time to see you?
this was a no-starter from the get-go
end it and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2013): You both should sit down and find days that work for you but if he can't do that after he begged to get back with you, dump him. He should be sweeping you off your feet in the beginning not ignoring you. Good luck and find a man that has time for you :)your well worth it !
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reader, CMMP +, writes (17 July 2013):
I don't mean to sound insensitive, but I get the feeling that you are as much to blame as he is. But, either way, if you don't like the way he's treating you when you've only dated him for a few weeks then dump him. There's absolutely no reason that things shouldn't be great at this stage if you two were meant to be.
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