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writes: Hey I have a problem, my boyfriend lasts way too long in bed! Hes a great boyfriend and everything it's just we don't have sex until the night and even when I'm not really tired he lasts an hour and by the end I'm getting sick of it because I'm just so tired! I try to put off sex too because theres always people in his house so I can't like relax either, any advice? xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Princess-Clio  +, writes (1 April 2011):
Is he a smoker? Speaking from experience, get him to quit smoking and he will be a different man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionContrary to martini, I know that he's not faking since it's pretty obvious if you know what I mean like orgasming inside you. Nope I don't like to just lie about like a dead fish :O lol - when he comes close to coming after about 15 mins, he stops so he can control it again so I dont think that it's because I'm hard work. Just sometimes, I'd rather after a long days work he would want a quickie, but I don't know how to tell him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): I hate to say this, when there are possibly some sensitive women around, but it's possible that you aren't good in sex at all. I had a relationship with someone a few years ago who was way too timid and shy and mainly layed there. My gosh, so much work! Of the times we've had penetrative sex, I must have only orgasmed less than 10% of them. It took anywhere from 15 to an hour and a half to get her off, and sometimes I even had to fake it. [sigh]
[waves fist in the air] Never again! 8/
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reader, love crazy +, writes (8 October 2006):
that long huh? if there are other people in the house, tell ur man u would rather have sex when ur alone and its more earlier in the day. if ur getting to tired at night to have sex, let him know. it makes sex less enjoyable if ur too tired. other things u can try is telling ur man lets see if we can have a quicky and see how long that lasts. try other positions that would normally make a man orgasm sooner. like doggy style or with ur legs over shoulders. talk dirty to ur man, that really turns them on. and if that doesnt help, u may just need to cut him off if he is always taking so long. i know it sounds mean, but sex takes 2, and its got to be about u too.
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
Wow a guy thats long in a bed thats quite rare in my opinion! Do you climax quickly is that why you feel bored and tired after 1 hour? Your boyfriend obviously loves making love to you and wants the expierience to last as long as possible. The only thing you can do is spice and liven it up a bit maybe that way it will stop you from feeling so tired get the book on karma sutra try out new positions and i think then you'll be too excited trying new things than going to sleep.
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