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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I've known my boyfriend for four years now and we were friends until two weeks back when i agreed to be his girlfriend over the phone (phone call). He is in another city near mine for his studies so he always tell me he is busy. I don't know what to do now i feel alone all the time he hardly text me and never calls even on weekends. He is a lovely guy, gives me great advice, very smart but hardly has time for me. I asked him to come to my city so we could meet this weekend im not even sure if he is coming. What can i do to get his attention or to know that he still cares.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 February 2016):
 Its still very early in this relationship. Its great use have been friends, so you know each other, and well he obviously likes you or he would not have asked you to be his girlfriend two weeks ago.
A long distant relationship can be tough, especially when it is starting out that way. It might not work for you both if he is not going to put in enough effort. I can see that he may be busy, but nobody is so busy 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Am sure you could both make a time each day to talk to each other, even if it was only a five minute call. If you are feeling lonely now well then it will only get worse as time goes on. You asked him to come to you, why don't you go and see him? When you do spend quality time together you need to tell him how you have been feeling, and what you expect from this relationship.
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