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*irtypirate
writes:i know that my boyfriend is always very stressed, and very worried about things that have nothing to do with sex, and on top of those worries he feels pressure to make it good for me. becuase of all this he can only get a semi an cant get hard or even stay up. how can i get him to stop thinking so much i just want it to be really really good for him. he stresses that he cant get hard he actually is really depressed about it. what can i don i want it to be soooo good for him, but i just started having sex so i dont know much.
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reader, dirtypirate +, writes (18 June 2007):
dirtypirate is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankyou so much for the advice but i dont want sex to be completley out of the qestion. i know that sex isent the hole realation ship but its so important to me becuase im 18 an i finally gave it up to the one i love
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): Hi hun,
if he is stressed anyway with this added pressure it wont happen, Take sex out of the relationship say no actual intercourse, touch each other pleasure each other without expecting intercourse do everything but.... and just be patient, when the pressure is taken off and the other stresses are not so bad things will improve. You dont say what other stress he is under maybe just talking will help love, a little pressure taken off everyday with your help and love things will be fine in the end...
lots of love and luck to you both xxxxxx
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reader, ladybug  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 sex is always not a basis of love, i can see that you truly love your husband and you're upset on what is happening between the both of you in bed. The most important thing that you can do is to stay with him at this moments, your presence is very significant at this times, you should also help him built his self confidence when it comes to bed, tell him that you love him no matter what, and confide you're problem in a very sweet way.
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