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*anet30
writes:Hi, my boyfriend told me he had lot of problems and that he havent call me because of that. I told him i will call him next day, to ask him a favor, he says it was ok. When i call him he cream at me iam pist off, then he hang up at me. Send me a text message dumping me, we should to see us again and telling me to to call him or wirite to him anymore. I was so sad, after 3 days, i saw he unblocked me from his msn, but never said he was sorry. I needed to express how i felt about the situation, i was angry and sad at the same time. So, i sended him a email, telling he was a coward by dumping me by text messages, that he didnt knew how to confront problems, that he also lie to me, because he said that he wanted to be with me, and i told him he hurt me a lot doing that. He just think about himself, when i always treated him very nice and never do anythimg bad to him. So, after i send him that e- mail, i noticed him block me or deleted me from messenger. I dont know if i did wrong on writing him that e mail??I dont know if he really means what he said on the text message he sended me?/ I dont know if it was right of me telling him he was a coward and lie to me, by the way he acted? sometimes we are mad and said things we dont feel...i kind of feel bad that i sended him that e-mail, but i needed to express myself toward him in some manner...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): if it makes you feel better, i have a friend being dumped by her bf via sms too. but her case is worst as in he already borrowed her money almost 3k n he changed his number and move to another state where she has no idea where he is. they were together almost a year.
the guy didnt tell her y he wants to end it. talk more of saying sorry. she got very depressed and she told me that whenever she sees someone is having b'day party or anything, she broke down and cry.
but one thing help her through though. i myself recently had a brake up too. therefore, we both determine to be there for each other. keep each other busy by going out, texting, vacationing... help each other to see another guy..
you should try this.. i just hope this story will help you.
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reader, janet30 +, writes (9 August 2010):
janet30 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, i know the relationship is over, it hurts, i just taught if he wanted to leave me, he should have done it in a better way, talking to me calm and giving me a reason, not the way he do it. After all, in the e-mail , besides telling him he was a coward and lie to me, i wish him luck and the best in life, because iam not selffish. After all, he deleted me after that e-mail. I was naive thinking he will tell me at least he was sorry the way he treated me, when he read the email. But know i will gain force to keep going on my health, i didnt want to talk about my health because i dont want people to feel pitty for that...
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reader, janet30 +, writes (9 August 2010):
janet30 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didnt do anything to him, he was mad because of his own problems, and he picked on me, we where going also to a trip for vacation. In the weekend he didnt call me at all, he don answer me or pick the phone when i called him. After days he call me saying he was having issues, i a say it was ok that i understand and will call him next day. I called him next day, he yell at me and hang up, And sended me the two text messages dumping me and not to call him anymore. I didnt do anything to him, to deserve the way he treated me, i sended he that email, because that was the way he let me feel. He was a coward, he search for the easiest way to dump me by text message, and he lie because he about a week ago said he will be supportive with me, because i needed he support to,i also was diagnosted with 2 tumors, i also have my problemes like him, and i dont ever treated like that. I waited he didint call me to say he was sorry, so i sended that e mail...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): well, he sounded so childish and immature. just forget whether or not you did the right thing. he is not worth it..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): This is truly a cowards way and a guy who does this actualy did you a favour as you need a real man in your life who will do or say things in the flesh not hide behind a phone
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): janet dear, your boyfriend is a coward and a selfish man, it's good he dumped you and showed you his real side otherwise you would have never left him thinking that he's the perfect catch.
moreover i think that your guy is unreliable cause even if he wanted to leave you he would at least ask you about the favour you needed from him as a gentleman not a lover.
the guy is a complete mess and you definitely don't deserve to be treated like this. so no and definitely not, your email was heartfelt and a normal reaction to what he did to you but from now on please refrain from contacting this guy cause any further reaction would be a minus in your record, cut the contact and he will realize what he lost, express your anger and he will run faster than light. you deserve better. good luck.
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