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*uzcuz2997
writes: I have this boyfriend, well, had this boyfriend but he broke up with me for another girl. but i still love him. his best friend is my best friend and he told me that he wants to go back with me and i keep playing hard to get am i wrong should i go back with him
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reader, cuzcuz2997 +, writes (6 September 2007):
cuzcuz2997 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut he didnt even ask me out well he did but i had to make him do it dont know what to do i see him looking at me all the time but i try not to stare back
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): Just move on. Let the past remain, just there, in the past. He left you for someone else, tough, don't have him back no matter what the circumstances.Take carexx
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (3 September 2007):
I think there is nothing wrong with making him work to earn back your trust since he was the one who left you. If it's a case of you no longer feeling secure in being with him then that will take time to rebuild after the knock you have just taken and he will have to work hard to get that back and so he should. I think you should just proceed at a pace you feel comfortable with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): You are not wrong in playing hard to get, what he did to you was selfish, hurtful and wrong. You need to know that he won't do this again.It's clear that YOU want him back, but why didn't he tell you this himself, why get his best friend to do it for him?This boy is acting quite silly and doesn't seem to know where his priorities lie. He needs to come and see you and tell you how he feels himself. If he's sorry and really wants you back then go for it, in the meantime the choice is up to you. Good luck.Hope this helps xXx
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