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*arahCa1989
writes:Well my boyfriend broke up with me cause he gave up loving me cause of his friends. He broke up this past thursday over the phone! He recently texted me and said he is getting strong feelings for me and he is going to try and see if he can make up everything and win my heart again. The problem is if i go back to him it will the 3rd time going back to him. So i need some help what would u do? Take him back or not? i still love him i just don't want to get hurt again. So please help me! Should i take him back or not?
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reader, DearKiki  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 If you respect yourself you wouldnt take him back. And if you cant respect your self how can you ever expect him to respect you and treat you how you deserve.
I know its hard to not get back with someone that you feel so much for. But hes obviously not right for you. I always say 'there is a reason they are your ex'. If they were right for you, they wouldnt be your ex.
He is stupid for letting you go and for hurting you, as i really do believe you are strong enough to say "NO" to him next time. You have to know what you deserve and he will keep breaking your heart over and over. So i really think what you need to do is get all your really close, best friends around you and keep them around you 24/7 for weeks. Because i believe, with the help of your friends, you have the strength to say no to him and keep your head up high.
You're too good to put up with that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): Forget about him, move on! You are not his doormat! Do not even consider it, who does he think he is to play with you and your feelings, to suit him and his "moods" or maybe needs.
Lift your chin high, feel proud of your self and tell him to "get lost"1
Hope you find a good caring guys soon and have lots of fun.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 June 2008):
If he's that stupid and immature that he would risk losing the girl he loved because of his friends... then no I would not take him back.
If you do then he will do exactly the same thing again because he will know he can dump you, mess you about and you'll be waiting for him to come back when he's ready.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, inneedofattention +, writes (8 June 2008):
 darling- you are worth somuch more than this guy ever could! you obviously care about him a lot, but in my opinion i would suggest that you forget him. how dare he break your heart 3 times- especially by the phone.he is really taking the mick. so break up with him and move on to someone who can truly appreciate how fab you are.
all my luckand love, in need of attention. xxx
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