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writes: Hi im 13 years old and my biyfriend -well ex now is 17 but when we wer goin out we loved each other loads + still do.I go to a boarding school and some of the teachers found out that we were together and have now split us up.I know that they just worried that we will hav sex and he'll be accused of rape but i know matt too well and know that he would never force me to do anything i didnt want to - he even said so.A boy tried to when i was 10 and i broke his nose so i can handle matt - im stronger than him.My parents and his are fine with it so i dont see how the school can break us up - its stupid!!have you got any advice on what i could tell the teachers to make them understand and let us be together - hes only here for another year + im feeling suicidal about it..please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (17 April 2006):
 Calm down and take a deep breath, yes the school have a moral responsibility for your welfare while they are in effect your gaurdian, so best way to deal with this is to respect what they have said but to write or talk to your parents and him to his and get them to contact the school and say that they trust your judgment and that they believe no harm of a sexual nature will come to you.
You say your parents and his are fine with you seeing each other so if this is the case neither set of parents will mind writing to the school.
Personally i think that he is a bit too old for you, but this is your choice and not mine and if your parents are fine with it then ok.
Sex at your age would be a very bad idea and would possibly get him or both of you expelled from the school.
In the short term you really must do as the school asks because if you dont they will not trust you and it will be 10 times worse for you and your boyfriend.
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