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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006):
Its not the job of the groom to pay for a wedding in the first place. Its your families and yours.
And he already figured out its a waste of money. You cant blame a guy for that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSTILL THE SAME AT MIN IM STILL IGNORING HIM IM STILL HURT AND GUTTERD
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANK YOU FOR THAT ANS YEAH I DO LIVE WITH HIM HE AS BEEN MARRID BEFORE ABOUT 14 YEARS AGO HE IS ALWAYS ASKING ME TO MARRY BUT NOTE GET DONE IT WERE JUST HOW HE SAID I AINT PAYING FOR ANOTHER WED IT JUST UPSET ME HE GOT ME FLOWERS TO SAY SORRY FOR WAT HE SAID BUT NOW I FEEL IF WE DO GET MARRYED THAT WILL ALWAYS BE IN THE BACK OF MY MIND AFTHER ALL NOONE LIKES TO BE SECOND BEST TO THE FIRST WIFE THANKS FOR REPLYING
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): You need to talk to him about this. Can you pay some of the expenses yourself? Do you live together?
What sort of wedding do you want?
It doesn't HAVE to be big and elaborate! You could just go to a registry office to tie the knot and invite friends and relatives for a meal at a nice restaurant! But I'm guessing you want something more fancy than that....
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