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anonymous
writes:My BF and I have been together for 4.6 years. We have been through alot. My problem is he never shows me respect and I always feel like I am a lone. He says I am not social enough for him because I don't do bars. He has cheated on me because I don't do what wants to do. We have a great sex life. He is not romantic unless I get angry about it. He does alot of business trips on weekends and during the week. I am lucky if I get 3 hrs with him a day. Yet he wants someone to take care of him without so any thanks. I have cheated on him to get attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): I say end it and find a man who can be more emotionally supportive as well as physically present for you.
There is no use in complaining about how little you see him if you are aware of his work schedule; that he goes to bars and cheats on you and blames you for it-abusive, and that it is all about him.
Not too many emotionally secure adults would choose to remain in such an unbalanced relationship that has elements of abuse.
That you have issues with abandonment are evident and maybe that is why he choose to remain with this man who is not good for you.
That you have cheated on him to get attention isn't good for you and will only have him mistreat you further.
End it and please get some counselling.
Best Wishes.
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reader, Kody  +, writes (7 March 2007):
If he shows you no respect leave him there are plenty of other people out there
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