A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:i have this bf that i love with all my heart and he says he feels the same but he has another girlfriend. he claims he wants to leave her but shown little signs of doing it. i have the girls home number and email address and i very tempted to contact her one day and pretend to be a onlooker and say ive seen the bf with a girl alot doing more than just friends stuff. will this solve my problem as she might dump him or will they talk it out and him dump me? please can i have answers that dont tell me to dump him? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, AngelofLove +, writes (7 December 2006):
 Ok, do not dump him. What makes you think that by the other girl dumping him will stop him finding another girl to play with?
All I can ad is that if he loved you with all his heart, there be no space in his heart for nobody else.
You decide.
Good luck xxx
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): Most likely you will find yourself even more unhappy when you talk to this other girl! She could make trouble for you, and blame you, she certainly won't be grateful! And she may well figure out what the real truth is.
You say you don't want to dump him. But what future is there in this relationship for you?
...............................
A
male
reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Well your solution might work. But then what's to stop him from doing the same thing with another girl?
Since you dont want to ditch him, you might as well tell the other girl what's happening. Yes, there is a chance they'll sort something out and he'll end up leaving you. But your only other choice is to live with it since he wont be leaving her any time soon it seems.
Besides, if he's known her longer than he's known you, then you're probably just a little extra on the side to him and all his sweet words wont change that. But since you dont wanna get tough on him, I guess eventually you'll get used to it. If he doesn't dump you first that is
...............................
A
female
reader, kdlady +, writes (6 December 2006):
Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006): There is only one thing you can do! tell your boyfriend to come clean or you will. Us girls should all stick together and if by you giving him this ultimatum he doesnt want to see you anymore be grateful because he would only end up doing the same to u.
...............................
|
