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female
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30-35,
*dgjl09
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for just under a year. We are both in our twenties. The first 6 months we used to have sex all the time. Now, our sex life is near nothing. We only have sex in bed and lucky if its once or twice a week. It lasts 10 minutes maybe and very little foreplay. I'm getting frustrated because I love sex and I want to try new things. I have tried to have sex with him in the shower and a couple of other semi public places and he has always turned me down. I also suggest he do me in other positions like doggy but he always says he's too tired or something. Whenever I try to talk to him about this he just tells me I'm obsessed with sex and that he just wants to watch tv. Mind you he really wanted me to pick up this chick on the weekend saying if I picked her up for a threesome he would do anything for me. It didn't end up happening and then we never had sex. If he sees hot chicks on TV or down the street he will make a noise or comment on them. It makes me feel like maybe I am not attractive enough. I keep wondering why he doesnt want to talk about sex with me??In a healthy relationship you should want to try new things and be able to talk about things you want without being judged but every time he just totally shrugs me off and acts like im crazy. Please help me =(
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (9 May 2011):
 I have left sexually dying relationships that I've tried to repair and star in. As far as the Threesome goes, forget it, I draw the line at threesome, why, because it's only telling me, this guy want's another girl legally.
If he is uncooperative, he's now in control of the relationships sex life.
Forget that too!
No I do not like sex Sam I am, I do not like it here or there, I do not like it anywhere. Not in a box, not with a fox, Oh, though, wait a minute, there was that fox on the street yesterday.
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