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writes:my boyfriend of 3 years is being forced to marry someone else, my parents do not no about us as they are very traditional but his parents do. What should i do should i just run away with him, i cant live without him but i know it will destroy my parents and our family name. Reply to this Question
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reader, Kitty Thunder  +, writes (21 February 2009):
 Forced to marry? I'm sorry but there is no word bad enough for that. You need to report it to the law, it is illegal as a previous poster said. Anyone being forced to marry against their will is being denied their own human rights. Don't run away. Keep a steady head, use good logic and the power of the law to keep this from happening. That said, both of you follow your hearts. ALWAYS. Don't hesitate a minute to stop what is happening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): you cant run away together with just a reason of you love each other so much..both of you must think of it hundred times because not only your life is at stake but your family, your bf, as well as your bf's family..love conquers all, love move mountains but love also fades..thats the truth we can't escape from..nothing is forever, everything changes..we just have to be prepared to all the changes that might come..but if you really can help it then do it..at least you tried your best to fight for it than regreting it at the end..
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 January 2009):
http://www.fco.gov.uk/en/fco-in-action/nationals/forced-marriage-unit/
This website will help you.
Forced marriage is illegal in the UK and if you call the number on the site then they will be able to help your boyfriend.
His family will not know who made the call.
Don't run away together as it is very dangerous and you may both end up on the streets and desperate, which is not a good place to be.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): Oooo thats so romantic! Just running out into the distance not knowing where it will take you, but just the thought of you being together gives you the strength to do something so bold..... wow.Yeah if you love him THAT much go for it girl!All the best xxAwwwww! =]
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